“At what point did you stop doing what you love and start doing everything else?” AT&T Print Advertisement: New York Times
I’m not quite sure when it started, but a lot of conversations now seem to be about health. I’m the youngest of 10 kids. Luckily, 9 of them are still on the go, leaving aside various bumps and bruises. So, when we meet up my siblings seem to endlessly swop war stories on Medical Condition A versus Medical Condition B. Linda’s Mam and Dad have also had a tough run on the medical front. The GPS in her car automatically heads towards Beaumont hospital if she doesn’t re-programme it! As a family, we are turning into a walking Wikipedia on medicine.
Health Matters: Why is this important? Because tomorrow we will look back at how healthy we are today. We will understand how stupid we were to obsess about pay cuts, about selling that 2nd apartment or having to hang onto a 2008-registered car when our neighbour has a shiny new one. We will come to realize that, in the greater scheme of things, none of this matters. What does matters is that we are (relatively) healthy. The odd virus, chest infection or in-growing toenail doesn’t count (walk on ahead, just ignore me limping).
Yesterday is past and we can’t control it. Tomorrow is yet to happen and we can only anticipate it. The only real control we have is over today. And just like the line that ‘there is no such thing as bad weather, only inappropriate clothing’, we have to learn to steer our thoughts positively. Perhaps steal some of the Robert Herrick’s (16th Century author) philosophy – made famous in the movie Dead Poet’s Society.
Gather ye rosebuds while ye may,
Old time is still a-flying;
And this same flower that blooms today,
Tomorrow will be dying.
If you can make ‘today’ the happiest day of your life (and keep repeating it), you are destined to have a very happy life. Some years ago, on my way to a beach in Australia, I came across a surfer on his way back from a session. “How was it?” I asked. His response: “Better than not going.” We all have to enjoy what we’ve got and to mentally sort the ‘important few from the trivial many’.
God, I could do with that surfboard now. But, just to lie on. It would be great for my bad back!
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PS I know it’s an old one but John McGlynn claims that his headstone inscription (he’s definitely a Hypochondriac) will read: “Now, you’ll believe me!”
Lighter Note: The Jewish Princess: Am American guy wanted to marry his Jewish girlfriend but her family insisted that he would have to get circumcised. So, he asked her brother about the procedure:
“Does it hurt”?
Her brother said: “I can’t really remember. I had it done when I was six weeks old”.
The fiancé was insistent. “Tell me the truth. Is it brutal”?
The brother replied: “Look, I don’t remember the pain but I’ll tell you one thing. I couldn’t walk for a year afterwards”.
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